This video talks about who we truly are – soul – and who we think we are – our personality.
Soul is always attempting to connect and remind us that we are not our personality, we are not just our minds, our emotions and our physical bodies; we are so much more!
Our soul expression is blocked by the fears and the limitations of our personalities.
When we understand and can transform our fears, then soul has a greater ability to express itself in our lives. Love (soul is the essence of love) counteracts fear, not only because it is the opposite of fear, but because fear is simply the absence of love. When that absence is filled, then fear automatically disappears.
Fear is also a result of not knowing. We often fear what we do not know, and we imagine how it might be a threat to us. We cannot love what we do not know. So overcoming our lack of knowledge or understanding about the object of our fear is a healthy and necessary first step toward overcoming fear with love. As part of The Soul Journey program you will learn about the purpose of fears and the purpose of wounding; what role they play in our lives and how to heal them.
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Anything that is worth doing as an individual is determined by its necessity in the larger group and in humanity or the planet. If something is of value to you as an individual it must also be of value to others. This is a soul principle of right relationships.
The actual moral and spiritual principle for determining right action, right thought and right speech can be expressed with a question: Does it empower others or does it disempower them? Anything done, said or thought that does not empower or some way aid others is not appropriate, not acceptable, and automatically creates negative karma for oneself. The reason for this is because the whole purpose of our existence is to collaborate positively and contribute wisely to the well-being of all life.
Reflect on what you do for yourself and examine it in light of its value and relevancy for others and your environment.
We are a soul and we have a personality through which to express the soul that we are. But there is a difference between the two. Soul is selfless and personality is selfish.
There is nothing wrong with selfishness so don’t feel guilty when you are selfish. And there is nothing right with selflessness either, so don’t feel proud when you are selfless. Just be aware and be conscious and make the best quality choices you can at any given moment. And be happy with that.
For the next week take a few moments at the end of each day and examine various things you thought, said or did that day, and assess whether you were selfish or selfless. Then be grateful for your awareness and honesty.
Relationships are always soul caused. Therefore they are all important and meaningful.
Keep in mind that the objective of all relationships is to grow in oneness which is achieved through committed love. Some relationships simply teach the lessons that will enable you to be committed when you learn what is necessary.
Take any relationship you have and reflect on what you give to it and how committed you are. Also reflect on how the relationship gives you something meaningful and important.
Marriage is a soul symbol, and an archetype of wholeness. That is its power and attractiveness.
Marriage is a union of the opposites. Therefore two people within a marriage have as their primary purpose the exploration and experience of the opposites so that they can be fully embraced and transcended for greater wholeness.
One Of The Things That Helps Make A Successful Marriage Is . . .
The growth of the individuals involved must serve the relationship, must serve the union directly or indirectly. Marriages dissolve when the actions and attitudes of the participants do not serve the union. One of the primary characteristics of marriage is commitment – to the extent of sharing everything and merging in a way that you share both the love and the karma of each of your lives. One of the purposes of sharing everything is so that the perceived negative in ourselves and others can be welcomed and loved.
If you are married what is your level of commitment? How whole heartedly do you give yourself to the relationship? What do you do that detracts from the union of your relationship?
To be able to respond most appropriately to another person in need we have to listen to them with our heart, which is the love-wisdom aspect of our soul.
When we face another person in need and we are not conscious then we do not hear with our heart and do take the other into our heart. We are left then with only one option – judge, reject, condemn, ignore, accuse. We then stand separate, outside of Love and untouched by Beauty.
Through practice, learn the differences between listening with your ears, with your mind and with your heart so that you can deliberately choose how you will listen to others.
Soul Sign All physical difficulties and personality challenges are signs that we are resisting or distorting the intelligent, loving energy of our essence, the soul that we are. Reflection There can be immediate physical causes such as toxins, bacteria and injury. There can be emotional causes such as anger or resentment. There can be mental causes such as a victim attitude
Soul Sign True love is unconditional. It is your soul’s urge to give of yourself without expectation. Reflection The true love you have for someone has actually nothing to do with how they show their love for you. True love is generated within ourselves because of how we perceive them and how we perceive our duty or commitment, and how […]
Soul Sign Illness can be a sign that soul uses for us to learn what we need to learn. Reflection If you discover that illness is a necessary good you then work with its meaning and purpose in light of your own life purpose. When you view it in this way, then you can approach it physically
Soul Sign Our power resides in our life purpose which is embodied within our soul. Reflection Self empowerment occurs when you know your life purpose and align with it. Empowerment of others occurs when you express your life purpose by supporting and loving others to fulfill their life purpose by being true to who they are in essence.
Soul Sign Genuine generosity is soul love expressed toward another. Reflection Very often we think of generosity as an action, and therefore as long as we do the action we assume we are generous. But generosity is not primarily an action. It is love that needs to manifest as action. Consider how generous you are in the various relationships
Soul Sign Soul is present behind every manifestation and every experience, awaiting our response. Reflection It is primarily through our resistances, difficulties, challenges, problems, illnesses, etc. that we eventually begin to discover what they are for and why they exist. Delving deeply enough into the energy behind them leads us to sufficiently overcome some ignorance, selfishness and inertia
Soul Sign Fears and wounds that we all experience hide the soul’s energies that need to be expressed. Reflection We use defence mechanisms in order not to feel the effects of our fears and wounds because they don’t feel good at all. And yet what we need to do is to go deeply into them
Soul Sign Your personality is your soul’s vehicle of expression. A limited awareness of your personality limits your soul’s expression. Reflection Soul uses the personality for its expression. Knowing the personality is like developing the technical or artistic skills of a craftsman or artist. Without these, soul expression cannot be communicated in a way that is sensitive to others.